با سلام دوست عزيز از كد زير استفاده كن ببين چطوره
 Public Declare Function mciSendString Lib "winmm.dll" Alias "mciSendStringA" (ByVal lpstrCommand As String, ByVal lpstrReturnString As String, ByVal uReturnLength As Long, ByVal hwndCallback As Long) As Long
Public CDRom As Boolean
Dim a As Long
Dim b As String

Private Sub Button2_Click(ByVal sender As System.Object, ByVal e As System.EventArgs) Handles Button2.Click
a = mciSendString("set CDAudio door open", 0, 0, 0)
Me.Text = "Your CDRom Open door"
End Sub

Private Sub Button3_Click(ByVal sender As System.Object, ByVal e As System.EventArgs) Handles Button3.Click
a = mciSendString("set CDAudio door closed", 0, 0, 0)
Me.Text = "Your CDRom Closed door"
End Sub