هر کاری کردم با switch بنویسم نشد 
از این کد استفاده کن
private void tabControl1_Selected(object sender, TabControlEventArgs e)
{
if (e.TabPage == tabPage1)
{
this.Text = ":D";
MessageBox.Show("Selected Tab Is " + tabPage1.Name);
}
else if (e.TabPage == tabPage2)
{
MessageBox.Show("Selected Tab Is " + tabPage2.Name);
}
else
{
MessageBox.Show("Selected Tab Is " + "I Dont Know ...! :D");
}
}
و
private void Form1_Shown(object sender, EventArgs e)
{
tabControl1_Selected(this, new TabControlEventArgs(tabPage1, 0, TabControlAction.Selected));
}