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            SqlCommand ocm = new SqlCommand("SELECT joziat,SUM(mablq) as ghj FROM tblcash where joziat=N'" + textBoxX1.Text + "' group by joziat");
//SELECT joziat,SUM(mablq) as ghj FROM tblcash where joziat='a' group by joziat;
ocm.Connection = objconnection;
objconnection.Open();
SqlDataReader sdr = ocm.ExecuteReader();
if (sdr.Read())
{
string Name = sdr["ghj"].ToString();
textBoxX2.Text = Name;
}
// panel4.Visible = true;
objconnection.Close();