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Private Sub MSFlexGrid1_MouseDown(Button As Integer, Shift As Integer, x As Single, y As Single)



    With MSFlexGrid1

        .Row = y / (.RowHeight(0) + 10) + .TopRow - 1

    End With

    

    '...

    '...

    '...



End Sub